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Gym Workout Plan for Women: A 4-Week Upper/Lower Split

A good gym workout plan for women looks like a good plan for anyone: a few big lifts done well, enough work to get stronger, and a clear way to add weight over time.

Updated · 6 min read · By the HerShape team

This free 4-week plan is an upper/lower split: four 45-60 minute sessions a week in a standard commercial gym. You get sets, reps, rest and effort for every exercise, plus a warm-up, weekly progression, a 3-day version and rules for low-energy days.

It works as a beginner gym plan for women who know the main machines, or as a reset after a break.

How this 4-week gym workout plan for women works

Any four days work if the lower-body sessions are not back to back. A sample week:

DaySession
MondayLower A: squat and hamstrings
TuesdayUpper A: horizontal press and row
WednesdayRest or easy cardio, 20-40 min
ThursdayLower B: hinge and glutes
FridayUpper B: vertical pull and press
WeekendRest, or an easy walk or bike ride

The WHO recommends muscle-strengthening activity on at least two days a week plus 150-300 minutes of moderate aerobic activity, so the cardio days earn their place.

Warm-up (6-8 minutes)

  1. Three to four minutes of easy bike, rower or incline walking.
  2. Movement prep: bodyweight squats and glute bridges on lower days, band pull-aparts and incline push-ups on upper days.
  3. Ramp-up sets for your first exercise: 8 very light reps, 5 at about half your working weight, 3 at about three-quarters.

How to pick your weights with reps in reserve

Effort is written as reps in reserve (RIR): how many more clean reps you could have done when you stopped. 2 RIR means two good reps left in the tank.

Pick a weight you think you can lift for the top of the rep range. Sail past it? Go heavier next set. Miss the bottom? Go lighter. Log everything.

Your upper/lower split, day by day

Rest 2-3 minutes after the main lifts and 60-90 seconds on smaller exercises.

Day 1: Lower A

ExerciseSets x repsRestEffort
Barbell back squat (or goblet squat)3 x 6-82-3 min2-3 RIR
Romanian deadlift3 x 8-102 min2-3 RIR
Dumbbell reverse lunge2 x 8-10 per leg90 sec2 RIR
Lying or seated leg curl2 x 10-1290 sec1-2 RIR
Standing calf raise2 x 12-1560 sec1-2 RIR

Day 2: Upper A

ExerciseSets x repsRestEffort
Dumbbell bench press3 x 8-102 min2-3 RIR
Seated cable row3 x 10-1290 sec2 RIR
Lat pulldown3 x 10-1290 sec2 RIR
Seated dumbbell shoulder press2 x 8-1090 sec2 RIR
Cable face pull2 x 12-1560 sec1-2 RIR
Dumbbell curl + rope triceps pushdown2 x 10-12 each60 sec1-2 RIR

Day 3: Lower B

ExerciseSets x repsRestEffort
Trap-bar deadlift (or kettlebell deadlift)3 x 6-82-3 min2-3 RIR
Barbell or machine hip thrust3 x 8-102 min2 RIR
Leg press3 x 10-122 min2 RIR
Leg extension2 x 12-1560 sec1-2 RIR
Cable or machine hip abduction2 x 12-1560 sec1-2 RIR

Day 4: Upper B

ExerciseSets x repsRestEffort
Assisted pull-up (or lat pulldown)3 x 6-82 min2-3 RIR
Incline dumbbell press3 x 8-102 min2-3 RIR
One-arm dumbbell row3 x 10-12 per side90 sec2 RIR
Dumbbell lateral raise2 x 12-1560 sec1-2 RIR
Push-up (or incline push-up)2 x 8-1260 sec2 RIR
Hammer curl + overhead cable triceps extension2 x 10-12 each60 sec1-2 RIR

How to progress from week 1 to week 4

Use double progression: stay at a weight until you hit the top of the rep range on every set at the target effort, then add the smallest jump available (usually 2.5-5 lb or 1-2.5 kg for upper body, 5-10 lb or 2.5-5 kg for lower body) and build the reps back up.

WeekSetsEffortGoal
1: LearnAs listedAdd 1 RIR to each targetFind working weights
2: BuildAs listedAs listedAdd reps or weight
3: PushAdd 1 set to each day's first two exercisesAs listed; last set of main lifts can reach 1 RIRBeat week 2
4: Deload or testAbout half3-4 RIRRecover

Deload: keep week 3 weights, halve the sets and leave fresher than you arrived. Test: on each day's first exercise, do one set at your week 3 weight for as many clean reps as you can, stopping at 1 RIR, and compare with week 1; do the rest at deload volume. New lifters should choose the deload.

Then repeat the block from your new weights.

Bad-energy days, busy weeks and common mistakes

What to do on a bad-energy day

Energy shifts with sleep, stress, illness, under-eating and, for some women, cycle phase. Many notice lower energy just before or during their period, but research on cycle phase and strength is limited and mixed. Treat it as one input alongside sleep, stress and recovery.

Do the warm-up first. If you feel better, train as planned. If not, pick one:

  • Trim: do the first three exercises only, with one fewer set each.
  • Hold: repeat last week's weights with 1 extra RIR.
  • Swap: back squat to leg press, trap-bar deadlift to dumbbell Romanian deadlift, dumbbell bench to machine chest press, assisted pull-up to lat pulldown.
  • Walk: if warming up makes you feel worse, walk 20-30 minutes instead. Rest if you have a fever.

The 3-day version for busy weeks

Only three sessions this week? Train full body with a rest day between each, using the same rules.

SessionExercises
Full body 1Back squat 3 x 6-8; dumbbell bench press 3 x 8-10; seated cable row 3 x 10-12; leg curl 2 x 10-12
Full body 2Trap-bar deadlift 3 x 6-8; lat pulldown 3 x 8-10; dumbbell shoulder press 3 x 8-10; reverse lunge 2 x 8-10 per leg
Full body 3Hip thrust 3 x 8-10; incline dumbbell press 3 x 8-10; one-arm dumbbell row 3 x 10-12 per side; lateral raise 2 x 12-15

Common mistakes

  • Going to failure every set. It adds fatigue for little extra benefit. Stay at 1-3 RIR.
  • Never adding weight. If your gym workout routine has felt easy for weeks, it has stopped challenging you.
  • Changing exercises every session. You cannot track progress on a lift you do once.
  • Skipping upper-body pulling. Rows and pulldowns deserve as much attention as glute work.
  • Rushing rest on big lifts. Short rest usually means fewer good reps.

How HerShape helps

HerShape builds a weekly workout plan for a full gym, dumbbells or bodyweight, and adapts it to your goals, progress, cycle phase and life stage, with irregular cycles, PCOS and perimenopause accounted for. Exercises come with form videos, and progress tracking is built in. On Pro, you can ask Coach Sarah (the AI coach) why your plan changed.

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Frequently asked questions

Is an upper lower split good for beginners?

Yes, if you can reliably train four days a week, since each muscle gets worked twice. Otherwise, use the 3-day full-body version.

How heavy should women lift?

There is no special "women's weight." Use whatever load lets you hit the target reps at the listed RIR, then add weight as you get stronger.

Will lifting heavy make me bulky?

Building noticeable muscle size takes a long time, consistent training and enough food. Early on, most women mainly gain strength.

Should I train differently across my menstrual cycle?

You can, but you do not have to. Evidence for cycle syncing is limited and mixed. Use the bad-energy rules whenever you need them.